We love the idea of allowing a child to be raised with a special pet, and dogs are great kid-friendly pets to have. But it is important that your children are aware of the right behavior around a dog so that both the pet and the child will be safe and happy. Here are some important things to remember as you bring a new dog into your family:

•    Before Fido arrives at your home talk to the kids about how to treat a dog.

•    Dogs have feelings and can be injured just as easily as the child can. Remind them to be careful of stepping on toes and pulling on Doggy’s ears.

•    Dogs need to be left alone while eating. They have a natural instinct to protect their food and should be left alone to do this and then remove the food until the next mealtime. The eating times should be routine, same time each day if possible.

•    Agree as a family on what the doggy rules will be; off the couch or on the couch, can he sleep on their beds or not? This way the dog will not be confused by conflicting expectations.

•    Who will give Fido his baths and walks? Be sure the children know that these are not done only when they feel like it. Once the “new” has worn off and the kids are no longer begging to be the one to walk Fido, they will need to be responsible to do it anyway.

•    Be sure to provide the dog with her own toys and do not allow her to play with your children’s toys. Not only will a dog quickly ruin most normal toys that are meant for kids, but the small parts or the inside fillings could be harmful to her.

•    Most pet experts suggest that age 8 is often the best age for a child to have her or her own pet to care for, depending on how responsible your child is.

•    The most recommended dog breeds for children are a beagle, Boston terrier or a Cocker spaniel, in the small dog category. For one of the larger breeds, Labrador, German shepherd and Golden retriever are recommended.

As a parent, you are the best one to choose when your child is ready for a pet. Do they understand rules and jobs around the house? Owning a pet is a wonderful way to teach responsibility and love for animals.

It is also important to remember that owning a pet involves the whole family and everyone needs to be willing to have a pet. If Mom and Dad are not in agreement about having a dog, the joyful and loving pet experience will be anything but joyful. Take a family vote if necessary, but be sure that the whole family is ready to add someone new to the mix!